It bothers me the way some misguided young ladies are setting themselves up for a crisis-ridden life due to lack of respect for their man. Why should a lady be fooling herself to think that she is equal with her man, God did not make you equal with man, HE made you out of man to be his help meet.
Simple!
Some of the cultures that promotes ABSOLUTE equality between men and women have the highest cases of struggling single mothers and divorcees; to them it's a normal thing for a man or a women to get married and divorce three different people in their life time, without considering the consequences.
Look around, women who are always competing with their man don't last in marriage...
Talks like "if my husband dates another woman, I will date another man too will only land you in mess".
As Africans we have our culture of respect, so if your man decide to marry you alone, the least you can do is to respect him as your head and husband, rather than ignorantly claiming equal rights with him.
This is for wise ladies, who have proper upbringing and home training from their parents, to retrace their steps - don't take I-Too-Know character into marriage for your own good.
Love your hubby, build your home, train your kids, support your man's strides and enjoy your marriage!
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